tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-810400474373848755.post3700376646414333170..comments2014-10-01T02:02:42.337-07:00Comments on Easy Come, Easy Go: The Love GeneEasy Come, Easy Gohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05258307545108974387noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-810400474373848755.post-69948073523764137812012-01-26T07:39:15.495-08:002012-01-26T07:39:15.495-08:00The rules we make for ourselves, especially in lov...The rules we make for ourselves, especially in love i.e. (who is a good choice, who is a bad choice) can put us in bondage. There aren't many rules I'm learning except love yourself, love thy neighbor, and love god. Beyond that, don't scrutinize too much, someone might surprise you if you let go of the rules. The rules I'm talking about aren't your values and morals, they are who is good and who is bad. Ask yourself, "Am I happy around this person? Can I make choices I feel good about while loving them? Do they profess they want to be with me too?" There really is no such thing as black and white, right and wrong person for you (that's my opinion I know, but it's after many years of therapy!). When you love an alcoholic, you still love them, it's not always a deal-breaker, like for your grandma. When you want to give something a chance, jump in with both feet and try to love without judgement and see how far you can get. I know where some of this is coming from my kindred spirit! :) I have more, but I like talking to you on the phone better! Then you can give me crap for my run-on sentences! Love you,<br />HHeather Ann Barretthttp://www.facebook.com/HeathaBarrettnoreply@blogger.com