tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-810400474373848755.post8566080206779069455..comments2014-10-01T02:02:42.337-07:00Comments on Easy Come, Easy Go: Yes, No, Maybe SoEasy Come, Easy Gohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05258307545108974387noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-810400474373848755.post-23754010083993937512009-12-29T14:04:23.570-08:002009-12-29T14:04:23.570-08:00Don't women do the 'dibs' thing, too? ...Don't women do the 'dibs' thing, too? <br /><br />If you're into someone, isn't it sort of understood that they're off limits to your friends until it's apparent that they're not into you? <br /><br />If I'm out with my pals and I know that one of my buds is into someone, I'm not going to go after her until my pal gives me the okay. <br /><br />I don't know. It just seems like the decent thing to do. I find it hard to believe that women don't do the same. <br /><br />So yes, I'm also curious to hear a woman's perspective.Matthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13255645426259568056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-810400474373848755.post-56647318429085845642009-12-28T15:06:37.599-08:002009-12-28T15:06:37.599-08:00It is so weird that you should bring up those topi...It is so weird that you should bring up those topics because I have experienced both of them in the past month. You will see something soon.Easy Come, Easy Gohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05258307545108974387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-810400474373848755.post-4362161605626901332009-12-28T10:15:57.391-08:002009-12-28T10:15:57.391-08:00Gotta look at the overall picture with this guy. I...Gotta look at the overall picture with this guy. Is he normally the kind of guy who speaks clearly and means what he says? Or does he kind of leave things open to interpretation? Is he moody and does he take it out by dropping out of social life for a while? Does he say something to reassure you that he wants to see you, but just doesn't know if he can? Trust your intuition, and play the field in the meantime. That's what I do. :)<br /><br />Also, there are a couple of dating topics that I'd love to read your thoughts on. First, the passive-aggressive "fadeaway" - or when a guy decides after a few dates that he doesn't want to pursue the romance any further, and let's you know by... not saying a word or returning any of your calls ever again. Very immature and obnoxious. Second, the observation that in groups of men, one will often "call dibs" on a woman, as if he's claiming the exclusive right to pursue her without considering HER opinions, or her preference for perhaps another guy in the group. Equally annoying.Libbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16545673644686531770noreply@blogger.com